Love Forum By: Sis. Sis Koo Ivy Mae Dablio

Last Feb 10, Friday at Al Safa 405 We had the SFC Love Forum Activity with our dear Speaker Tito Jeffrey Cabral who explained to us "How to be Mr & Ms Right" 

It is an eye opener for all the singles as he clearly give his talk together with our dear Tito Lito Abuan who also present in the said event to guide us in the Open forum.

God has created two non-identical beings, a man and a woman. He created each one to have distinct physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual characteristics. Although we could argue that each individual is unique, regardless of sexuality, there are still common traits that are exclusive to each other. We could enumerate these differences, even science could prove it, but you can never fully understand an opposite sex unless you have been with one.

Being in a relationship, either friendly or romantically, can help you identify or distinguish these dissimilarities. It is better to experience it up-close and personal. And it is mandatory to know each other’s differences to keep the relationship going. It may take months, or years, or even decades to fully understand it. So never enter a relationship if you are not prepared to endure it.

Try to understand yourself first before trying to understand your partner. When you fully understood each other’s shenanigans, then you can finally compromise. Always try to uplift and complement each other. Learn to appreciate the small things. Give him/her inspiration and motivation. Boost his/her self-esteem. Remove all his/her insecurities.

Of course, problems will arise along the way, those which you have not encountered yet, so patience and understanding should always be kept in play. Listen to each other’s problems and demands. Communicate. Give time for explanation, to better understand the situation, then calmly find a solution.

Though there will be differences, couples should always have a common ground. It could be a hobby or the sorts. But it is best to keep God in the center of the relationship. Make Him your common denominator. He will always guide you and keep the relationship stronger. Eat together, pray together, and love together.

To sum it up, it always takes two to tango. Men and women are two different individuals. But in God’s will, faith will bring them together to be as one. There is no such thing as a perfect relationship. There are no written rule, no manual, no relationship for dummies, no lectures for it. But as long as you accept each other’s imperfections, knowing how to handle problems maturely, always having a healthy and open communication, and putting God at the center of if, any relationship could ultimately be imperfectly perfect.

To God be the Glory!